animeloverr1 reblogged your post and added:

Like I said, I understand where you’re coming…

I didn’t say I didn’t understand you or that I didn’t agree with you. I said this wasn’t the post or the place. 

Nobody said ‘all white people.’

And for the record, the races of these people were relevant because her mistreatment of this boy is racial. She can’t empathize with his disability (why? don’t you know the disparities between race and empathy), the institution has supported her and allowed to swap out her one baby for a host of others, why? Because she’s white. If this were a minority family, the state would have removed that baby and disallowed them from ever adopting again. It’s a system, supporting and encouraging whiteness, even insidious deeds. 

So, when a minority says ‘white people are evil.’ It’s really shorthand for ‘this system of white supremacy that is born of the oppression of minorities and contributes to and benefits from white people exclusively, both directly and indirectly, both subconsciously and purposefully, is evil.’

When a woman says ‘men are evil.’ It’s really shorthand for ‘this system of male dominance that has created a patriarchy in which the oppression of women is paramount in order to contributes to and benefit from men exclusively, both directly and indirectly, both subconsciously and purposefully, is evil.’

When queer people say ‘straight people are evil.’ It’s really shorthand for ‘this global system of heteronormativity where otherness is criminalized, segregated, and legally oppressed and shunned contributes to and benefits from straightness, cis-ness, and archaic gender and sex roles exclusively, both directly and indirectly, both subconsciously and purposefully, is evil.’

But people should have to explain ourselves. Malcolm X said the most efficient quote I’ve ever heard about so ‘reverse racism’ and why white name-calling is not racist:

"Why, when all of my ancestors are snake-bitten, and I’m snake-bitten, and I warn my children to avoid snakes, what does that snake sound like accusing me of hate-teaching?”

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When you waiting on that DNA test and it’s not yours:

When your friend comes thru with the alibi for your lie: 

When you get the last Honeybun:

When yo momma strike up a conversation and it’s not about something you did

When your crush follows you back

When somebody finally text you back

When you go out to eat and they tell you it’s on them

When you see the police and they not lookin for you

When yo fave finally not fucking up

When you waiting to see if your direct deposit posted

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animeloverr1 reblogged your post and added:

Oh..and I want to add…I’m glad the little boy…

Okay, so you’re not white. Honestly that changes nothing. You came on a post in which some people, who happened to be white, had done a terrible thing to a little black adoptee and instead of speaking about that atrocity that actually happened and has ruined a life, you co-op the conversation to make it about hurt feelings…and not even your hurt feelings, like proxy hurt feelings. That was the issue here. Whether or not you agree that all white people are evil or none of them, should not have been a talking point because no one in that thread said all white people are like anything. Like at all. You made it about an insinuation, an inference.

If a woman came up to me right now and said ‘Men are dogs,’ the only appropriate response would be ‘Tell me about it. No really, tell me how living in this patriarchy has negatively affected you and your view of men and how can I help?’ Because to interject with ‘not all…’ nonsense is to tell that person that my hurt feelings are as bad or as serious as the oppression they’ve spent their lifetime living under and that’s not okay. The comments about white people is a whole other separate conversation that you should not have been having on that post…or really to any person of color ever in history until we’re at least half way equal. Until minority hate can actually lead to some institutional, tangible harm on white folks.

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How the Logic of "Friendzoning" Would Work If Applied in Other Instances:

*Man walks into a store and finds employee*

Man: Alright, I've had enough. Why haven't you guys hired me?!

Employee: Uh...well sir, when did you put in your application?

Man: I never filled out an application.

Employee: Well sir, we can't consider you for employment if you've never filled out an application.

Man: No, that's bullshit, because I've been coming here for years now, and every single time I tell you all how much I love this store and how much I appreciate your customer service, unlike some of your other customers might I add!

Employee: Well, but that doesn't-

Man: AND I even told you that I didn't have a job!

Employee: But sir, that doesn't indicate to us that you would like a job at our store. And again, if you've never filled out an application, we can't consider you. Besides, we're not hiring.

Man: OH! Not hiring, HA! What a laugh. I see your store go through seasonal workers all the time. They come and go like nothing, but you won't consider me as a part-time employee even though I KNOW you've been looking for workers to fill positions? That's insane!

Employee: Sir, we've been looking to hire a few people for management positions. Do you have any management experience?

Man: Well no, but what does that matter?

Employee: ...Well sir, that's what we're looking for. You won't be suitable for the position without management experience.

Man: Oh that's such a load of crap. You know, you'll be waiting around a long time for a manager if you don't lower your standards a little. Who cares if someone knows how to manage a store? I LOVE this store and I'm willing to work here, that's all that should matter to you.

Employee: That...doesn't make any sense.

Man: NO! I'm done. This is over. From now on, no more Mr. Nice Guy.




Man: Fuck you, slut.

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Kerry Washington performing Sojourner Truth's 1851 "Ain't I A Woman" speech

 A clip from the History Channel’s “The People Speak”




In worship!!!!

My soul has been cleansed

I felt the need to reblog this again because^^^^^^ all that. Whew. I luh her.

Ugh I wish she was my Mama.

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me now: I'm drowning. I didn't ask for this. Too many groups. Too much racist/sexist/ableist bullshit. I fucking hate everyone I hate 99% of the kpop fandom. @ everyone: fight me. I'm tired and angry.

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Anonymous asked:

Now begins the "Darren Wilson fund raisers are scams". This is going to be reported in order to make the masses think the murderer never got the money so when the Brown family sues Wilson for wrongful death Wilson can claim to be broke and not pay a dime. Meanwhile the money sits in an disassociated account in which the murderer has full access to. More tricks games and deception, they are the best at it but don't fall for it.

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DECATUR, Ga. — Police are searching for suspects in a deadly Decatur kidnapping.

Authorities say a man and a woman were kidnapped early Saturday morning and found just a few hours later handcuffed and each shot in the head. Their families have pulled together a $15,000 reward for anyone who can tell them who did it.

The family says Jeronta Brown and his fiance, Briana Brooks, took their 8-month-old baby and 14-year-old niece out for a meal. When they got back to their Decatur home, several men jumped them.

The children were able to get away, but Brown and Brooks were put into the back of a van.

Brown’s aunt, Myesha Brown, said the men tried to get inside the house before leaving.

"The guys walked up, started ringing on the doorbell, beating on the door, yelling, ‘FBI, FBI,’" Brown said.

Instead of opening the door, Brown said they called 911. Police did show up, but Brown said they didn’t take the kidnapping seriously.

"We were unable to get the kidnappers what they wanted due to Dekalb County thinking that this was a joke, this was something Jeronta set up," she said.

Brown said a family member got a call shortly after the kidnappers took off, demanding $150,000.

By daybreak, a driver 17 miles away in northwest Atlanta spotted Brooks and Brown lying in the street.

Jerota Brown was dead. Brooks, seven months pregnant with the couple’s second child, was alive. Doctors were able to deliver the baby girl by C-section. Brown says the infant is doing fine, but Brooks’ condition remains uncertain.

DeKalb County police were unavailable to talk about the crime and their response to it because of the holiday weekend.


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Anonymous asked:

why do black people use you in the wrong context? such is "you ugly" instead of "you're ugly" I know u guys can differentiate, it's a nuisance

life, incogneeco Answer:




you a bitch

It’s called copula deletion, or zero copula. Many languages and dialects, including Ancient Greek and Russian, delete the copula (the verb to be) when the context is obvious.

So an utterance like “you a bitch” in AAVE is not an example of a misused you, but an example of a sentence that deletes the copular verb (are), which is a perfectly valid thing to do in that dialect, just as deleting an /r/ after a vowel is a perfectly valid thing to do in an upper-class British dialect.


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